最近这周心情大起大落，原定于5/20出结果的宝宝的摇号，5/18号短信就出来了。
结果非常失望，感觉对不起努力了那么久的宝宝，和老婆也是久久不能接受。

看了千帆上很多帖子，果断是报喜的多，失落的都暗自伤心去了。
今天早上听到得到里面的一篇录音，当遇到挫折的时候，要从“长期主义”的角度去看，去理解。
这不是故事的尾声，恰恰可能是序幕的开始，宝宝的学习生涯才刚刚开始，虽然是普通的学校，但也一样需要努力。

我觉得我可以每天陪伴她锻炼，先从身体锻炼开始，每天坚持，相信一定会越来越好！

IF

IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
‘ Or walk with Kings – nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man, my son!

–Rudyard Kipling,1910.